Yoga and Meditation

I consider myself as a very calm person. I’m compassionate and considerate of others’ feelings. I’m contented with my life even though it’s not an easy one. We don’t have any debts and have food and a home to live in. Nevertheless, meditation is still a necessity for a lot of people.

All of my efforts of staying calm failed last week. I accompanied my sister to the hospital. She’s someone who is very hard working. She never goes on a leave if it’s not important. She fell ill last year and just couldn’t take it anymore, so we went to have her checked by a doctor. The doctor let her lie down in a hospital bed, injected a needle in her arm, transferred four blood bags into her body and told her that she has pneumonia.

That blood-sucking pneumonia just wouldn’t sink into my head. Last year my sister lost consciousness at work. I drove her to the hospital and dreaded the doctor’s findings. She was given five blood bags this time. She insisted that she was plain anemic. She went to undergo a ct scan and we were told to go to her lung doctor as soon as we can.

She never likes me worrying so much about her. She kept her mouth shut about her true condition and wanted to enter her doctor’s room alone. I went into meditation and said to myself that I would accompany her this time when turn comes up. I did just that. Her doctor got inside and I could tell instantly that concern was written all over his face. He stated the outcome of her ct scan. He said a line about the condition of her lungs.

He told us that something was starting to increase its size in her nodules and it will go to her lymph nodes next. Reading between his lines, I knew it was cancer. Through meditation, I keep my sister calm first by asking her doctor the slight possibility of cancer.

His response was yes mam.She has to go for a biopsy in a couple of days to see how far it has progressed.I really find myself angry at this point because she has never smoked a day in her life,And here she is 49 years old with lung cancer.So instead of worrying for the next couple of days and getting angry,I simply practice meditation by praying that god please heal my sister.

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So what is forgiveness? Forgiveness happens when you let go of your anger, your negative thoughts as well as resentments towards someone who has done you wrong. When you forgive a person, you willingly decide to move forward and you see that person’s actions in a much broader context, rather than letting the actions define that individual.

Forgiveness is pretty much an internal process that does not require both parties to be involved with. You have to choice to either forgive somebody, or let it be. They don’t have to have the same mutual feeling, and it isn’t a two-way street.

Safety First Always

Sometimes, you might decide not to forgive a person in order to try and avoid meeting that person face-to-face. Meeting them in this manner could be hurtful and it is crucial that you protect yourself first.

Sometimes reconciliation might not be advisable. A good example of this is when someone is involved in some sort of domestic violence and he or she can’t seem to let go of feeling anger as well as vengeance towards the offending partner in the relationship. The only time you would want to forgive that person would be when he decides to make a change for the better and promises were demonstrates that he will no longer repeat the same hurtful actions ever again.

If you have been badly hurt and you’re still really upset about your current situation, get help. You can always find somebody they can help you sort out your feelings and to help you vent your frustrations. A good ear will help you decide whether or not you want to reconcile as well as forgive the person who has hurt you.

Is there something you’ve learned about yourself that you can take from this experience? Always try to learn from your mistakes and better yourself. Do you need to be more careful and not trust others quite so easily perhaps? Or maybe you just need to work on having clear boundaries and rebuilding your self-esteem.

Another way to relieve the tension and to know the way any anxiety as well as anger, is meditation. Meditation also promotes calmness as well as compassion, and there are many good books out there which delves into deeper details regarding this.

Finally, it always helps to find an experienced teacher who offer you support with any hurtful feelings that might crop up on you.

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Often and repeatedly, every person on the face of this planet is affected by anger. It is a basic human emotion.

Everybody gets mad, that is what is meant by anger is a basic human emotion. Life is filled with conflict, and this is the reason for it. It seems like in a lot of cases that for one person to win another one has to lose.

Anger like the other emotions is contagious and rapidly spread from person to person. This is done unknowingly. Not only does anger act this way, but happiness and sadness operates like this too.

Anger has different levels of intensity. A person can be outraged, and they can be just a little angry. How high the level of anger is is also different from person to person. For example, let’s say that the person next to you pinches you, your sister and your friend. Even though everybody gets the same pinch, you will all respond to the pinch with a different level of anger.

I am saying that in some people, anger is stronger than it is in others.

However even though anger tries to pull a response, the answer or response is always the choice of the person who is angry. When you get mad, you have a choice of either forgiving and forgetting about the problem, or you can keep your grudge and try to destroy the source of your anger.

So the way you respond to anger is determined by you and your way of thinking about things.

Another important consideration should come to mind when you think about anger. It is a question that you need to ask. You need to question yourself about the justification of your anger; Am I angry for just reasons, or am I being immature.

This question is not one that you can always answer alone. A curious thing about people is that we are hardly able to see our problems and being able to tell when we are wrong. And on top of that you can be perfectly just in your anger, and a smooth talking person can get you to think that you are not.

So getting help with managing your anger will help you to understand what setting and defending your boundaries are all about. Once you can do this, you will know if your anger is good or bad.

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